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Our consciousness is not something permanent. It is flexible, it can be changed, improved, rebuilt. Another thing is that it can take a different amount of time, but here we are almost powerless.

Psychologists say that the subconscious of each person is unique. Our inner world is bottomless, endless and beautiful for everyone in their own way. One way or another, but many of our victories are impossible without the right attitude. It is imperative to program yourself for success, if only because otherwise your mind can be captured by negative viral programs that will pull the rope in the other direction - towards failure, poor health, depression, and so on.

Success is an internal struggle

Have you noticed that successful people are successful in almost everything? The reason lies in their attitude, and not just in the genes. They won their inner struggle when they dismissed the possibility of failure. Most famous athletes say that they saw their victories long before it became a reality.

Fight negative thoughts so that they do not translate into defeats and failures. No one says that it is easy to go through life with confidence in your victory, but you should at least try. Nothing happens by itself - every success implies at least a small one, but a war inside each of us. Consciousness builds the world around us. Thoughts are material, so we seem to draw with them on a clean canvas of life. Thoughts are paints, and reality is a piece of paper.

Without effort, you will have nothing. You need to properly tune yourself and not forget that only by transforming your consciousness you transform your life.

5 ways to influence consciousness

Specialists in bioenergetics and psychologists identify only 5 main and most effective ways for a person to influence himself. Each method can be used by you separately, but if you use a combination of these techniques and techniques, then there will be even more chances for success.

Method One: Affirmations. This is the longest, but very simple way. Its essence consists only in the constant repetition of special motivating phrases. When you tell yourself that you are successful, money luck finds you. Of course, it will take a lot of time to turn negative programs into positive ones, but it will be worth it. This is a flexible way, because you can tell yourself whatever you want.

You can use affirmations from Natalia Pravdina, Louise Hay, or any other specialist in bioenergetics or psychology. There is also an easier option - you can come up with affirmations yourself, in accordance with your requests. Need love? Tell yourself that you are beautiful and worthy of love, attention of the opposite sex. If you want to lose weight, then tell yourself that you are strong and your strength is enough to become slim and beautiful. It will come with time. The main thing is not to give up. The only downside to affirmations is that you won't be able to see success clearly, because the transition from an unhappy life to a happy one is a long and continuous process.

Method two: meditation. This is no longer psychology, but pure work with the subconscious, the bioenergy of your body. The point is to dive deep into yourself. It's like hypnosis, trance. You force yourself to go inside the subconscious and look at your life as if from the outside. Meditations can be very different. Audio meditations, for example, can be used directly while running, walking or walking. These can be thematic dives in order to find a way out of a difficult situation, improve mood, gain calmness, self-confidence, understand something complex. They are also best used as often as possible.

Method three: positive thinking. There are a lot of sub-points in this methodology. For example, you need to get rid of any use of the word "no". It robs you of positive energy, preventing you from connecting with the abundance center of the universe. Also, positive thinking involves the use of several postulates, rules that are similar to affirmations. Their only difference is that they do not require repetition. You just need to accept them for the truth:

  • you can always achieve whatever you want;
  • you are your own masters;
  • Everyone creates their own happiness.

Think more about what you want to achieve. If you want to win in a sports competition, then think as if it has already happened. If you need a good job, then do not stop looking for it, because there is such a job. You seem to be already happy, but you just haven’t reached it yet. You are on the way. You can.

Method four: sports. You might think that this has nothing to do with the subconscious, but it is not. It is not necessary to try to set records or become the strongest. It is enough just to run in the mornings or evenings, do exercises and not be afraid of physical labor. According to statistics, people who are obese or have health problems due to a sluggish lifestyle are 80% less likely to succeed than active individuals. This also includes bad habits such as smoking or alcohol abuse. You can drink, smoke too, but you can’t raise it to the degree of necessity. Everyone wants to relax sometimes - there is nothing wrong with that, but you don’t need to make the habit control you and pull money out of you.

Method five: hobby. Remember that only busy people have a chance of success. Your mind is tuned to the positive when you do something pleasant. Let it be embroidery, reading books, watching movies or something else. It can be anything. Follow your dreams and give your subconscious what it wants without harming you.

Success in any area of ​​life depends on many factors, but the most important thing is your attitude. Live as if there is no one else in this world except you, but do not forget about loved ones who need your warmth. You can change your destiny right now, because you have a desire. May your life be different from now on. Good luck to you, and do not forget to press the buttons and

The paradox is that whether we have a goal or not, we still achieve something in life. After this thought, another thought came to my mind: “If I don’t have my own goal in life, then I will have to work for someone else’s.” The question is, how to distinguish someone else’s from yours and how to achieve it? 4 years, 4 years I achieved my first results, I can boast of some of them, 4 years, every day I searched for methods, tried, looked, studied.Only after 4 years of experiments on myself did I get the first result.
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SOME TECHNIQUES I PERSONALLY TRIED AND SHOWED RESULTS:

★ Film "SECRET" result 15-20%
★ "SPIRITUAL CHOICE" method result 0-3%
★ Method for achieving HARD-TO-REACH goals result 3-10%
★ Simplified goal specification (GOAL TO HAVE) result 40-60%
★ Goal specification using DILT LEVELS (HAVE, CAN, BE) result 80-95%
★ "Way to achieve the desired GOAL" result 2-5%
★ Method "LOTSMAN" result 15-25%
★ TRANSERFING reality result 18-25%
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NO WIND WILL BE FAVORABLE IF YOU DON'T KNOW WHERE TO GO.

A goal specification is a way of structuring unconscious behavior, a way to get your subconscious to work for you, to get you to do things you enjoy, and your subconscious to work towards your goals.

WHAT IS IMPORTANT TO KNOW FOR THE SPECIFICATION OF THE PURPOSE THAT WILL LEAD TO THE RESULT:

★★★ ILLEGAL WORDS. Which of the words is STRICTLY PROHIBITED to use when specifying a goal.
★★★ CHECK FOR MOTIVATION. As Billy Wilder said: "You must have a dream so that you can get up in the morning."
Do you have a DREAM?
★★★ SCALE. At this point, our task is to figure out how ready we are for this goal in terms of the availability of resources. Do not take on an unbearable burden if you do not want to break your back. We will take adequate steps towards the Great Goal.
★★★ We also need to understand the aspects of ECOLOGY OF THE GOAL, CONTEXT, SECONDARY BENEFITS, CORRELATION WITH LIFE POSITION (whether this goal contradicts your internal beliefs), etc.

10% of the people who watched my webinar on GOAL SPECIFICATION have quit drinking. This does not mean that the technique works, it already works. This suggests that the PURPOSE has a DREAM and motivation for which a person can stop drinking alcohol.

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AFTER STUDYING THE METHODOLOGY OF SPECIFICATION OF GOALS AND RECORDING IT INTO YOUR SUBCONSCIOUSNESS, FOR ADVANCED WE WILL STUDY SETTING 3 TYPES OF GOALS
(which many successful businessmen and politicians talk about)

THERE ARE 3 TYPES OF GOALS
(R. Kiyosaki sometimes mentions this at his events, but we will analyze it in detail)

★ 1st type Aim to BE. At this stage, you need to determine your life position.
★★ 2nd type Purpose TO BE ABLE. Here our task is to define a set of skills and competencies to achieve these goals.
★★★ 3rd type Purpose TO HAVE. Here, we define a set of physical resources to support skill achievement.

This technique is quite DETAILED and MOST IMPORTANT SPECIFIC.

VIP DAY (analysis of YOUR specific GOAL) +++

★★★ MAIN ADVANTAGE OF THE METHODOLOGY ★★★

We can WRITE goals of all three types directly into the SUBCONSCIOUSNESS. Those. whatever you do, all your actions will be aimed at achieving your goal. Sometimes it is very much like a magic pill for freeloaders. I wrote down my goals in the subconscious and nothing else needs to be done. This is wrong. You will still be doing things. It's just something that will lead you to your goals.

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THE NUMBER OF SEATS IS STRICTLY LIMITED (!)

SUCCESS TO LEAVE A REQUEST ON THE SITE

Much has been said and written about the power of the subconscious. We, the goal-achievers, are interested, respectively: how to use this powerful weapon in achievement ?

(Of course, I must warn you that the subconscious mind is in my mind, and the article according to this is not a genie from a bottle, fulfilling our every whim at the snap of a finger. It is a powerful force, but it has only two hands, and they are ours).

How to make the subconscious work to achieve the goal (dream)

1. Check for compatibility

First, you need to check how compatible your dream (goal) is with you. If the goal is far from yours: it’s either inspired by fashion, or parents wanted it that way, or fell under the influence of another guru, then the subconscious mind will choose any path, but away from such a “desired goal”.

I offer two ways to check: for this you need your imagination, and if your imagination is tight, then the second option is a verification action.

My goal?

Imagine that you have achieved your goal. Detailed to the smallest detail. As if you are already living with it (with a purpose). How to change the way of life, the attitude of your environment towards you, what will you have to give up, what will open the door, and what will close, what will be deleted from life?

Any negativity that you feel when answering these questions is the wall that will stand in front of you and your goal. If small walls are not a problem, but a sports obstacle, then the “Chinese wall” (too many obstacles) is, alas, an indicator that the goal is either beyond your reach or not yours.

Another great option, not for the lazy, is to take a step towards the goal. If after one micro step in her direction you observe positive changes (joy, good emotions, an increase in salary, an improvement in relations) - it is yours. Otherwise, at least not now.

2. We program ourselves

Those. let the subconscious work.

  • A very simple way to make the subconscious work . Most likely, the goal will begin to haunt you (in the head). Before going to bed, before you close your eyes, think about your desire.
  • More advanced. You will not only from time to time think about the goal, but also about how to get it. Before going to bed, write a full sentence with your hand three times(for example, I am healthier every day, or money flows into my pocket).
  • The most difficult. Keep a goal diary. Before going to bed, in two stages: describe what you have done to achieve the goal today, giving yourself an assessment and what you will need to do tomorrow. First thing in the morning, read.
  • 100% method that the subconscious will start working. All of the above methods together, within 30 days.

(How to write? All list).

3. Report

If you are walking on the road, how do you know that you are moving in the right direction? When you know the beginning and end of the path and where you are now. The same applies to the movement towards the goal: consciously, planned or with the help of the subconscious.

Unlike a real road, where the landmarks are quite tangible, in achieving - everything is sometimes blurry. Therefore, from time to time you need to set benchmarks yourself, look back and look forward, but now in a figurative sense.

When planning, this is already clear, but on autopilot, so that the subconscious itself seems to move you towards the goal, an intermediate positive result is very important. This is a signal for him.

Something like this happens: the subconscious mind began to work towards achieving the goal, as a result, something came out. If it turned out what he needed, close to what he wanted, he needs a hint: “Well done. Move on." Otherwise, the result is ignored, the actions are changed.

(The subconscious mind is also a person, it wants to be well done - to do only those actions for which they are praised).

How to practically tell him that he's done well? Record the first shifts at every step. Then you can fix for a larger amount of work.

Any of the methods below will work for this:

  • Keep a diary of success. Every day write in it what good you have done towards the goal.
  • Buy a big calendar. It is a wonderful event to celebrate with emoticons and a couple of lines (I passed 5, closer to my dream).
  • Give yourself a point for every good action. Calculate points at the end of the week. Reward for a certain amount (pizza, chocolate, etc.).
  • Find a target mate. Once a month, report to him for the work done.

Briefly. The subconscious at the service of the goal

  1. Take the goal, the one that reaches you.
  2. Program yourself for the night during the entire journey to the goal (minimum 30 days).
  3. Reinforce positive steps (any positive development should be noted, with a smiley face, a crossed out task, a chocolate bar…).

This way of programming the subconscious can be called "Before going to bed" and the laziest, minimum effort, but maximum result. However, all these are words until you try it yourself ...

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What it is?

Joint goal setting is when many people (more than 100 people) simultaneously write down their goals, including being in different parts of the planet. It just doesn't matter if you're in the same room or thousands of miles apart.

What is the point, why is it cool and useful? 7 reasons to participate

1. Prescribing goals, the participants in parallel with this mentally wish each other to achieve them. It turns out something like a joint meditation.

Understand correctly:) I am very pragmatic about psychology. And then it seems like metaphysics went ... But it really works :)

Confirmation: does it happen that you thought about a person and he called? Does it happen that you told someone about your plans and they fell through? Maybe it happens the other way around - you told someone about your difficulties and everything was decided very quickly in your favor?

Despite the fact that you and I cannot yet explain exactly how it works, one thing is undeniable - when many people wish you success at the same time, something appears in your life that is commonly called LUCK.

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Paradox. We turn to the subconscious in the hope that it will help us achieve the goal (after all, it is through the subconscious that we are connected with the Mind of the Universe), but it can also prevent us from approaching the dream. It often happens that we sincerely want something - but no matter how hard we try, we just can't get it. You can sit for hours and practice such popular visualizations, go to courses, draw maps of desires, but for some reason, desires do not want to become a reality. So what's the deal?

Why does someone absolutely effortlessly get all the best in life, and someone is forced to simply watch other people's successes, remaining exactly at the point where they are?

One of the main secrets is that you need to be internally prepared in order to achieve this. And here we are talking about subconscious processes.

Our unconscious mind identifies the goal according to seven main criteria. And so it is arranged that if at least one of the components does not satisfy it, the goal will be rejected and not achieved.

Therefore, it is important to make sure that at an unconscious level your goal is accepted unconditionally.

> First: the goal must be desirable (that is, on an unconscious level, you really want it).

> Second: the value of the result you want. Deep within yourself, you must evaluate the result that you get as a worthwhile achievement.

> Third: belief in the achievability of the goal.

> Fourth: a deep conviction that the actions you need to take are adequate and environmentally friendly. That is, you do not have to saw off your leg, bite off your arm, or give up something very important and valuable in the process of achieving your goal. At this stage, many “break down”, because here the well-known story about the comfort zone is connected. The most popular contradiction is this: you want something very badly, but some part inside you says “no, you don’t need to go there, we are fine here, because we know what is happening here.”

> Fifth: the environmental friendliness of desire. If you achieve what you want, then it will bring something good into your life, and not vice versa.

> Sixth: confidence in their ability to achieve the goal.

> Seventh: confidence in the merit of achieving the goal. In the conditions of our Russian realities, this is a very important moment for almost everyone. We often, for various reasons, simply cannot allow ourselves to be happy. The concept of suffering is written both in religion and in the history of our country. Most of us are already born with a deep conviction that we deserve nothing, and if we do, it is only after much suffering and incredible effort.

If at least one of the seven points the subconscious considers not fulfilled, then the goal will not be realized. That is why you can trample on one place for a very long time, visualizing and refining the wording of your desires for years.

Consciously, you may want (to get married, to have a good relationship, to build a new business). But subconsciously, in the depths of your soul, you simply don’t need it (the goal is not yours), or it’s not worth it, or you don’t believe in attainability, or the achievement process breaks some deeply necessary part of your Self. Or intuitively you understand that you it is not necessary, it will not bring joy, something else. Either there is no faith in your abilities, or you think that you do not deserve such happiness and you still have to suffer. Options - a great many.

There is only one conclusion from all this - you should form an unconscious readiness to achieve goals, that is, convince your subconscious mind that it needs a goal. To do this, psychologists have come up with dozens of techniques, and you will have to make some efforts, but they are worth it.

Your subconscious supercomputer has all the resources to achieve absolutely any goals. But this law works only when this goal is approved by the subconscious on seven points, and with the help of a small exercise you can easily find out whether this is true or not.

Write down your goal on a piece of paper, try to relax as much as possible, imagine your desire in colors and details and repeat it mentally or out loud, adding the following statements at the end:

This goal is desirable;
- this goal is worth it to achieve;
- this goal is achievable;
- what I need to do to achieve this goal is normal and natural;
- how I will live after achieving this goal is normal, natural and even pleasant;
- I have all the necessary abilities to achieve this goal;
- I deserve to achieve this goal.

If on any of the statements you have unpleasant sensations, emotions, memories or thoughts, then most likely this is precisely the inner belief that prevents the desired from appearing in your life. This means that for some reason, your subconscious mind is not quite willing to accept your task for the time being, and it needs to provide some arguments. It, in turn, will consider these arguments and, very likely, will change its point of view. The solution to most problems ultimately comes down to working on yourself, changing yourself, your character - it doesn’t matter how you do it. Whether you work with stress, with self-organization, it is always an effort aimed at the formation of new habits, new character traits of a new self.

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