A strong prayer not to divorce your husband. The most powerful prayer for divorce Strong prayers for quarrels and divorces

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Why do we fall into temptation? How to save a family if one of the spouses suddenly meets the “other” or “other” and is ready to destroy the previous union? What is the first thing we should do when we find ourselves in a situation where our family is collapsing? How can you still try to save your family from a seemingly inevitable divorce? How to try to improve the situation in the family? And how, after a divorce, can you solve the difficult problem of maintaining good relations between parents and abandoned children?

Archimandrite Georgy (Shestun) answers these questions:

“We need to show special patience and wisdom. When someone falls into temptation, a fortress is sent to his loved ones so that they can survive the difficult situation together.

Why do we fall into temptation? Yes, because the second spouse often behaves incorrectly. The husband comes home from work tired and does not receive that well-deserved care, affection, and family rest. And the wife is also tired, because she has to earn bread. This all irritates and throws a person off balance.

Therefore, the first thing we must do when we find ourselves in a situation where the family is collapsing is to share the blame, to understand that both are to blame. And try to save the family. How? Correct your behavior, that is, repent of what was wrong.

Usually we begin to cry, express mutual grievances and reproaches, and as a result, we make life together completely unbearable. And we need to try to improve the situation in the family. If it comes to a man, then he must look at how he keeps and supports his family. If women, then she must think about who she is for her husband, she must again become a woman, a wife.

We need to remember why they fell in love with each other, and become like that again - affectionate, flexible, beautiful. A person, too, does not immediately drop everything and leave, he hesitates for a long time, and there is no need to push, but you need to do everything to save the family, create a pleasant atmosphere in the house, so that there is joy, peace, love. This requires wisdom and great effort. But the wisest thing is not to reproach, not to tempt, not to remember, but to forgive, repent and, first of all, correct yourself.

Those who have kept the family together usually understand its preciousness. A husband and wife after a year, two, three can say: “What a blessing that we didn’t do anything stupid...”.

Divorce does not deprive either parent of paternity or maternity rights. In mystical, spiritual terms, no law can deprive this. And how the relationship develops after a divorce depends on the reasonableness of people; in any case, the father should not deprive his children of care if the children remain with their mother, and should pray for them. And the mother must, as before, keep, raise and develop her children.

It is immoral, of course, not to allow the father or mother to see the child. You cannot erase your loved ones from your heart.

Divorce is a challenge for children too. And they should also behave with dignity - not judge their parents. God is the judge of father and mother. There is such an example in Holy Scripture. The son's name was Ham. And he didn’t just judge, he just laughed a little when he saw his father’s nakedness. Common name...

You can't be rude to your parents. You need to humble yourself, pray, love, honor, no matter what state your parents are in. These are the people given to you by God. Children do not have power, but with their love they can save the family. When a child hugs his mother with one hand and his father with the other, you need to have a very cruel heart to decide on a divorce. And it happens that children help a family fall apart, when incontinence and disobedience in a child’s life are added to all the difficulties that occur between husband and wife.”

Discord occurs in almost every family and it seems that previously good relationships have come to an end.

Young couples are especially at risk of divorce - they have not yet learned to overcome everyday obstacles together. If a feeling of love remains between a husband and wife, but the family is on the verge of divorce, then you can make a request to the saints.

The prayer to Matrona of Moscow for help in the family especially helps to avoid family troubles and restore relationships.

What prayers will help preserve love and prosperity in the family?

The life of the popularly beloved Matronushka is a long and thorny path to God. The basis of her actions was compassion and helping people. She healed the sick, guided them on the right path, supported them in faith, and brought the Word of God to the world.

After her death, the old woman was canonized and to this day does not cease to intercede for those in need to the Lord.

With God, everyone is alive, so every day, lines of people flock to the shrine containing the relics of the blessed Matrona with prayers for help and protection.

Prayer to Matrona for family well-being
Oh, blessed mother Matrona, we resort to your intercession and tearfully pray to you. As you who have great boldness in the Lord, pour out a warm prayer for your servants, who are in deep spiritual sorrow and asking for help from you. Truly is the word of the Lord: ask, and it will be given to you, and again: even if two of you take counsel upon the earth, whatever you ask, it will be given to you from My Father who is in Heaven. Hear our sighs and bring the Lord to the throne, and where you stand before God, the prayer of a righteous man can do much before God. May the Lord not completely forget us, but look down from the heights of heaven on the sorrow of His servants and bestow the fruit of the womb for something useful. Truly, God wants the child, so do the Lord to Abraham and Sarah, Zechariah and Elizabeth, Joachim and Anna, pray with him. May the Lord God do this to us, out of His mercy and ineffable love for mankind. Blessed be the name of the Lord from now on and forever. Amen

Prayer for maintaining well-being in the family
Blessed Elder Matrona, our intercessor and petitioner before the Lord! You look with your spiritual gaze both into the past and into the future, everything is open to you. Enlighten the servant of God (name), give advice, show the way to solve the problem (….). Thank you for your holy help. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Prayer for family
Holy righteous mother Matrona! You are a helper to all people, help me in my troubles (…..). Do not leave me with your help and intercession, pray to the Lord for the servant of God (name). In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Life of the Blessed Virgin

The baby was born into a poor peasant family. Even before her birth, the pregnant mother decided to give her newborn to a shelter. But at night the woman had a vision: a huge snow-white bird with huge wings sat on her chest, but she was blind - she had no eyes.

Soon a girl was born and, like that bird in the dream, she had no eyes, her eyelids were tightly closed, but there was a bulge on her chest - a miraculous cross. The God-fearing mother left the child in the family.

Miracle of the Birth of Saint Matrona

From an early age, the girl loved being at divine services, at home she played with icons, talked to them, and then put the icon to her ear and it seemed that the Pleasers of God were answering her.

At about 8 years old, Matrona discovered the gift of foresight and healing. She could predict the future of every person and, by prayerfully turning to God, cure any ailment. The Holy Pleasant changed people’s worldviews and instilled in them faith in Christ. Since then, she has become the breadwinner in the family. People flocked to her from all corners and villages for help, thanking the girl not with money, but with food.

At the age of 18, her legs were paralyzed; now the blessed one could only sit or lie. But she accepted this situation with humility and never ceased to thank the Heavenly Father for everything.

Many felt sorry for Matrona and considered her an unfortunate blind man. But she was sincerely surprised by the statements of those around her, because the Lord miraculously showed her the world, forests and fields, animals and birds, seas and rivers, countries and cities. Mother visited holy places, talked with ascetics, and Saint John of Kronstadt called her “the eighth pillar of Russia,” as if predicting a special service to the Almighty.

At a time when her brothers became ardent communists, Matrona did not find a place in her parents' house. She and her friend went to Moscow, where they lived with strangers, but did not stop helping those in need. The blessed one was visited by both ordinary people and prominent politicians of that time. It is known that Stalin turned to Matrona and she predicted a favorable outcome of the Great Patriotic War.

The old woman spent her last days of earthly life in the Moscow region; 3 days before her death, the date of her dormition was revealed to her. Before her death, she told people to come to her grave not as if she were dead, but as if she were alive. The old woman promised to help everyone who asked for help.

Believers talk about many miracles that happened through prayers to the blessed one.

Holy Matrona hears everyone who asks for her intercession before the Heavenly Father.

You can contact the old woman both within the walls of a cathedral, a temple, and at home, standing before her face in the Red Corner;
if possible, you need to visit the resting place of the old woman on the territory of the Intercession Monastery in Moscow and venerate her relics;
According to custom, it is advisable to bring fresh flowers (an odd number) to the grave and ask for help and protection.

The feat of prayer of Matrona of Moscow corresponds to the centuries-old traditions of popular piety. Therefore, the help she sends to pilgrims brings spiritual fruits: churching, initiation into life in constant prayer, confirmation in the Orthodox faith.

Archpriest Andrey Tkachev. About the Orthodox family.

I am so glad that there are saints in our Church... Such special people who, on the one hand, are the same as us. With their own difficulties and joys, with their own characters and destinies. There are so many of them that you can easily come across the biographies of some saints whose life path is close and understandable to you. Among them there are hermits, and silent people, and monks, and families, theologians and illiterate, rich and poor, there are even drunkards, fornicators and robbers. Some people carried a special divine chosenness throughout their entire lives, while others, on the contrary, came to faith towards the end of their lives and tried to beg forgiveness for themselves. I can’t imagine how one can live without patron saints.

If God is the Father, then the saints are our older brothers and sisters, from whom we can take an example and with whom we can talk about everything in the world. Sometimes in life there are such difficult situations that you no longer believe that they can be solved. And you ask your beloved saint: “Ask God there, please. And let it be according to your faith. Otherwise my strength is gone. My faith is over."

I have more than once encountered such tricky problems that, through the prayers of the saints, were resolved almost by themselves, and in some way that I myself would never have thought of. It often happened that help came from where it didn’t even occur to us to expect it...

It was the same with my marriage. Now I’m going over all the milestones of this wonderful story in my head and I’m surprised at how many coincidences there were in one square centimeter of my life. And is it a coincidence?

Now I am seriously sure that I got married the second time only thanks to the grace of God through the holy prayers of the blessed Matrona of Moscow.

Mother is a true example of humility and meekness, worldly wisdom and such complete trust in God that one can only be amazed. But she is our contemporary. My grandparents were already quite conscious individuals when Matronushka was still carrying out her feat on our long-suffering land. And now, after her physical death, mother does not cease to beg God for consolation to all those who come to her and call on her in their prayers.

This story began several years ago. Then I lived next to the Temple of the Deposition of the Robe, on Donskaya Street. The temple that Blessed Matrona loved so much that she even bequeathed her funeral service there.

I remember this May evening very well, exactly 2 years ago. Over dinner, my husband suddenly said that he had thought for a long time and came to the conclusion that we need to get a divorce. Just like that, just like a bolt from the blue. Get a divorce! It's mind boggling. Just a shock. I refused to trust my ears, my eyes, my common sense. This cannot happen, because it can never happen.

He continued to say something that he had not loved for a long time, that there were only obligations left, that there was no future. I sat in half oblivion, looked around and... It seems that the only thought that flashed through my head was: I need to go to the Intercession Monastery and pray. There were no more thoughts. Just fog and misunderstanding, in which I sat for a day, looking at the wall and blinking very rarely.

I remember I went to work, where I was given as much time off as I needed without question, and went to the Intercession Monastery to see Matronushka. Of course, then I only wanted one thing: for HIM to return. To come home and see that everything is as before. Or wake up and realize it was just a dream. It was with this thought that I went there for the first time.

Yes. I must say that in the 2 years of my life in Moscow I never bothered to get to the Intercession Monastery. I somehow kept getting ready and getting ready, and I would have gotten ready anyway if it weren’t for the collapse of my personal life.

That day Matronushka’s place was very calm and quiet. There’s a very short queue, and also trees, birds, flowers, silence and good weather. I was some kind of alien element with my bleeding soul at this celebration of life. I remember I was reading an akathist, but instead there was a bundle of nerves inside, an open wound, every word got there and burned and gave off pain. “Rejoice, guardianship of an honest marriage!” Perhaps there will still be?

In front of the shrine with my mother’s relics, I finally broke through. For the first time these days I burst into tears. Tears - in three streams, accompanied by a heartbreaking howl and inconsolable sobs. I sobbed and couldn’t stop, and along with the roar all the horror of the last days came out.

The kind girl who gave out flower petals to visitors looked at me and silently took out a full-fledged and real flower from somewhere out of the box. Maybe she wanted to console me. But she had no idea what a miracle this flower became for me.

So fragile, tender and beautiful. This is exactly what the Most Holy Theotokos is depicted with on my favorite icon, “The Unfading Color.” A long time ago, my grandmother gave it to me with the instruction to pray to the Mother of God for the groom. But then this prayer was no longer relevant for me. But now...

When I gained strength and told my dad that his daughter had been abandoned, my dad first ordered me to go to Matronushka and seek consolation there. For me, his words turned out to be something like God's revelation. You need to know my dad to appreciate what is happening. To be honest, I didn’t think at all that he knew about the existence of the blessed old woman. And he not only knew, but was also sure that this was where his child should look for support.

But then I was left completely alone in a strange city. All my relatives were far away. But, thank God, there were always friends around. And many prayers were offered for me. I literally felt them physically then. Imagine that there is complete confusion in your soul, pain, melancholy, unwillingness to live, some bad thoughts that rush through your head at the speed of light. Unreal chaos! And suddenly, as if someone had lifted the clouds above me, and the sun appeared. And it became calm. I was madly looking forward to these moments when I could take a breath, because another oblivion lay ahead.

I came to the Intercession Monastery, sat on a bench, read books, watched people, looked at the mothers hurrying somewhere, admired the children. It seemed to me that I was entering a world of normal people. And outside the monastery, real bedlam was happening. First of all, with my long-suffering head.

Then I still hoped that my husband might return. I was ready to forgive everything, accept it, and move on. But God had completely different plans for me.

Summer has passed, followed by autumn, and winter has come. And with it came the realization that my family life was over. One November day I reached the point of no return. This means that we had to learn to live again. Change your action plan.

That’s when I remembered my grandmother’s instructions and began to pray for a new husband.

During this time of forced solitude, I thought for a long time about my path. And I realized that I am a family man. And without my family, my salvation seemed literally impossible to me. Therefore, first of all, I wanted to meet a person who also looks at the family as a place of salvation. I remember I even described what kind of spouse I wanted to meet. I wrote everything from the bottom of my heart and at the same time lamented that such a thing must not exist in the world. But I understood that there was no more room for error. That you can no longer compromise with yourself. I understood too well what “not my person” meant.

I rode the subway, walked along crowded streets and thought: where are you hiding, my man? What are you doing right now? What issues do you have to solve now? Maybe you are also looking for me somewhere now?

I looked at married couples on the subway and thought that they had already met each other. But I haven’t yet. I understood that meeting in such a huge city was such a miracle! And often it was not believed that such a meeting could happen.

I once complained to a friend that my biggest fear was that I would be alone for the rest of my life. She answered me, laughing cheerfully: “Do you really think that the Lord wishes evil to his children? Everything will be fine!” And I believed it.

Of course, I didn’t sit idly by. I communicated, got to know each other, I learned to love God, my neighbors and myself. I read, I understood, I most of all did not want a repetition of this tragedy. And I understood that I would be alone until I worked on my mistakes.

Of course, I prayed for my husband. More often than not, this prayer was the cry of my sleepless nights: “Lord, do something! I can not take it anymore". And if it weren’t for the faces of the saints looking at me from the icons, if it weren’t for the feeling of their presence, if not for their holy prayers, I definitely wouldn’t have gotten out, I wouldn’t have survived, I would have broken down and given up.

One day, on an ordinary summer day, I received a letter from an unfamiliar young man. He read my essay on the Internet about the difficulties of divorce, and just wrote it. I decided to find out how I was doing. Quite by chance, a conversation began, as a result of which this good man volunteered to help me with renovations in a new apartment.

Just then I rented a new apartment on Taganka, not far from the Intercession Monastery. But the new housing needed cosmetic repairs. And I couldn’t cope alone.

A good man also turned out to be responsible. He helped me go to hardware stores, choose wallpaper, putty, glue, change sockets. That is, in reality, he did all this himself, and I only entertained him with my conversations and cooked food. The renovation was going on barely, the house was old, and new pitfalls were constantly popping up.

If not for this repair, who knows what our future fate would have been like. We didn’t make any plans for each other, we had our own companies, our own established circle of friends... Although, some inner voice constantly told me that this young man couldn’t just be let go. It should still be useful for some reason.

In the summer, I finally filed for a divorce and received an official document that I was now not anyone’s wife at all, but a completely free girl. As a keepsake of my previous marriage, I still have a wedding ring, which I long ago decided to give to Matronushka.

One day, on a warm September day, I decided to go to Pokrovsky, venerate the relics of the blessed old woman, and finally fulfill my promise. My new friend also decided to come with me. It turned out that he also reveres Blessed Matrona and even prays to her about the order of his life.

Already in front of the shrine with the relics of St. Matrona, I took my ring out of my bag, looked at it and remembered how my ex-husband and I bought it, I remembered the wedding and joy of my dear father, and his words: “So that for life!” I remembered how happy I was looking at this ring. My whole married life flashed before my eyes, and it became as sad as at a funeral. I saw off the era. I burst into tears and again could not calm down. Only the tears were completely different. My sadness is light. A good man consoled me as best he could, and then I thought: “What a kind and sympathetic guy. Lord, send him a good wife, he deserves it.”

A month passed, then another. Finally, the renovation was coming to an end... And one day we suddenly realized how attached we were to each other. That what we have been looking for for so long has already been in our lives for a long time, we just have to stretch out our hand.

For me, every day of these two years is filled with miracles: meetings, conversations, prayers, travel. It seems that it was then that I began to recognize this wonderful world. I think it was then that I began to learn to rejoice. And unbeknownst to myself, I turned into “we”.

Now we go to the Intercession Monastery together and thank Mother for helping us meet and find each other.

Holy Blessed Mother Matrono, pray to God for us!

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Prayer for scandals and quarrels in the family, with husband, with children

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In Orthodoxy, family, raising children and relationships between married couples are of high importance. The family is called a “small temple”, thanks to which the family hearth is under the intercession of all the holy calendar and even the Almighty.

As you know, nothing is perfect in this world. Also in the family, where various disagreements and misunderstandings occur, but the main thing to remember is that you are not just a couple, you are a whole union consisting of two people and who is responsible not only for themselves, but also for their children before all the Saints and the Lord .

Prayer for family quarrels

In order to avoid any difficulties that beset the couple and to calm all misunderstandings, you can turn to prayer for help, which can be read in different ways.

A prayer against scandals in the family is said before:

Holy Mother of God;
Protector of the pious family - Archangel Barachiel;
Ksenia of Petersburg;
Apostle John the Theologian;
The miraculous image of the Mother of God “Softening Evil Hearts”;
Saint Archangel Raphael.

In the Orthodox religion, there are a huge number of defenders of the family hearth from scandals in the home. In addition to the above-mentioned Wonderworkers, patrons can also include such Saints as Fevronia and Peter, who were able to live a long life happily in love and harmony, and they died in the same hour and on the same day.

There are also Saints Anne and Joachim (parents of the Queen of Heaven), who were truly the indicator of an ideal married couple. In prayer, you can turn to these images in case of a quarrel with your husband and other family adversities, when things are already heading towards divorce, and this is done so that peace reigns in the family again, and the faded love is reborn.

But to avoid quarrels with children, to protect the family hearth and the marriage itself, a prayer service said to St. Paraskeva will help. Such conversion in Christianity is considered the most revered because it relieves one from mental torment.

A prayerful appeal to the Saints and the Lord will help you:

Overcome difficulties and strengthen family ties;
Restore harmony in the home;
Establish contact with children and achieve understanding;
After a quarrel, a prayer service will help you realize that you were wrong, get rid of pride and allow you to realize your mistakes;
In some cases, married couples can even avoid divorce with the help of prayer to the miraculous image.

It should be noted that in order to get a greater effect from the prayer request, you need to visit the temple together with your significant other to read the prayer service in hope and faith for a bright and happy future.

Prayer from scandals

Appeal to Archangel Barachiel:

“O great archangel of God, Archangel Barachiel! Standing before the Throne of God and bringing the blessings of God into the homes of the faithful servants of God, ask the Lord God for mercy and blessings on our homes, may the Lord God bless us and increase the abundance of the fruits of the earth, and give us health and salvation, good haste in everything, and victory and defeat of enemies, and will preserve us for many years, always. Now and ever and unto ages of ages. Amen".

Appeal to the Mother of God:

“Most Blessed Lady, take my family under Your protection. Instill in the hearts of my husband and our children peace, love and non-questioning of all that is good; Do not allow anyone from my family to experience separation and difficult parting, to premature and sudden death without repentance.

And save our house and all of us living in it from fiery ignition, thieves' attacks, every evil of the situation, various types of insurance and devilish obsession. Yes, we too, collectively and separately, openly and secretly, will glorify Your Holy Name always, now and ever, and forever and ever. Most Holy Theotokos, save us! Amen".

Appeal to Ksenia of Petersburg:

“Oh, simple in the way of her life, homeless on earth, heir to the abodes of the Heavenly Father, blessed wanderer Xenia! Just as we previously fell to your tombstone in illness and sorrow and were filled with consolations, now we too, overwhelmed by pernicious circumstances, resort to you and ask with hope: pray, O good heavenly woman, that our steps may be straightened according to the word of the Lord to do His commandments, and yes The godless atheism that has captivated your city and your country, plunging us many sinners into mortal hatred of our brothers, proud self-indignation and blasphemous despair, will be abolished.

Oh, most blessed one of Christ, who has put to shame the vanity of this age, ask the Creator and Giver of all blessings to grant us humility, meekness and love in the treasure of our hearts, faith in strengthening prayer, hope in repentance, strength in a difficult life, merciful healing of our soul and body , chastity in marriage and caring for our neighbors and sincere ones, renewal of our entire life in the purifying bath of repentance, as we praise your memory with all praise, let us glorify the miracle worker in you, the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, the Trinity Consubstantial and Indivisible forever and ever. Amen".

God bless you!

Watch also the video of prayer for family well-being:

Orthodox prayer after divorce

Salvation and life with God concern the whole person, in his unity. Of course, physical death will be a serious trauma, because it will end all earthly connections, but the hope of a Christian is precisely that his body will be transformed into a new and glorious body (1 Cor. 15:35; Phil. 3:21).

But communication with God is not achieved through the decline of the body and the death of earthly ties; it continues, just as in some cases the love and desire of the Orthodox continues. prayer to bring your husband back after divorce. The “personal self,” the center of the human personality, the soul—in the biblical sense of the word—retains the original connection with God throughout life; this connection even becomes more complete. But if we believe that the unity of man is of great importance, we must admit that even after death there is a certain connection with the body and with the world, the connection is incomplete, inaccessible to our experience.

How to return your husband after a divorce with a prayer, what prayer should be said to get married after a divorce in order to achieve the desired result?

Our very first prayer is to the Lord, but not only to Him we turn. There are those who are better than us to ask Him for protection and intercession for us.

A strong prayer to the Guardian Angel after a wife’s divorce from her husband

God gives every Christian a Guardian Angel, who invisibly protects a person throughout his earthly life from troubles, warns against sins, protects him at the hour of death, and does not leave him after death.

“Holy Angel, standing before my accursed soul and my passionate life, do not leave me, a sinner, nor depart from me for my intemperance. Do not give room to the evil demon to possess me through the violence of this mortal body; strengthen my poor and thin hand and guide me on the path of salvation. To her, holy Angel of God, guardian and patron of my accursed soul and body, forgive me all that I have offended you so greatly all the days of my life, and if I sinned this past night, cover me on this day, and save me from every opposite temptation, Let me not anger God in any sin, and pray for me to the Lord, that He may strengthen me in His passion, and show me worthy as a servant of His goodness. Amen".

When the relationship between spouses reaches a dead end, when the situation develops in such a way that the only worthy and reasonable way out can only be separation, the wife can read prayer for my husband to leave. This will help people disperse more or less with dignity and calm, quickly forget each other and not ruin each other’s lives.

As such, Orthodox Christians do not have a Christian prayer for their husband to leave.

About those who hate and offend us

Troparion, tone 4

“Praying for those who have crucified You, O loving-hearted Lord, and commanding Your servant to pray for everyone, forgive us those who hate and offend us, and instruct us from all evil and wickedness towards brotherly and virtuous living, we humbly offer you a prayer; May we, in unanimity of mind, glorify Thee, the One Lover of Mankind.”

“Like Your first martyr Stephen, he prayed to You, O Lord, for those who kill him, and we pray deeply, forgive those who hate everyone and offend us, so that not a single one of us will perish for the sake of them, but we will all be saved by Your grace, O All-Bountiful God.”

Indeed, the Christian faith confesses that the dead who live with God are still one with us in Jesus Christ and in the Holy Spirit, in the bosom of what Christian theology calls the “communion of saints,” that is, a community of people sanctified by the Spirit and united in Christ.

The “resurrection in the flesh,” which forms part of the Christian Creed, means that the connection with other people and with the world will be completely renewed and restored, that the individual will regain his personality, transformed and perfected. This will be a new corporeality, exalted by the Spirit of God, an essential, although not material, identity of the body.

The most powerful prayer for divorce

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Prayer to Saint Matrona of Moscow for help in the family and preservation of well-being

Discord occurs in almost every family and it seems that previously good relationships have come to an end.

The prayer to Matrona of Moscow for help in the family especially helps to avoid family troubles and restore relationships.

What prayers will help preserve love and prosperity in the family?

After her death, the old woman was canonized and to this day does not cease to intercede for those in need to the Lord.

With God, everyone is alive, so every day, lines of people flock to the shrine containing the relics of the blessed Matrona with prayers for help and protection.

Oh, blessed mother Matrona, we resort to your intercession and tearfully pray to you. As you who have great boldness in the Lord, pour out a warm prayer for your servants, who are in deep spiritual sorrow and asking for help from you. Truly is the word of the Lord: ask, and it will be given to you, and again: even if two of you take counsel upon the earth, whatever you ask, it will be given to you from My Father who is in Heaven. Hear our sighs and bring the Lord to the throne, and where you stand before God, the prayer of a righteous man can do much before God. May the Lord not completely forget us, but look down from the heights of heaven on the sorrow of His servants and bestow the fruit of the womb for something useful. Truly, God wants the child, so do the Lord to Abraham and Sarah, Zechariah and Elizabeth, Joachim and Anna, pray with him. May the Lord God do this to us, out of His mercy and ineffable love for mankind. Blessed be the name of the Lord from now on and forever. Amen

Blessed Elder Matrona, our intercessor and petitioner before the Lord! You look with your spiritual gaze both into the past and into the future, everything is open to you. Enlighten the servant of God (name), give advice, show the way to solve the problem (….). Thank you for your holy help. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Holy righteous mother Matrona! You are a helper to all people, help me in my troubles (…..). Do not leave me with your help and intercession, pray to the Lord for the servant of God (name). In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Life of the Blessed Virgin

From an early age, the girl loved being at divine services, at home she played with icons, talked to them, and then put the icon to her ear and it seemed that the Pleasers of God were answering her.

At the age of 18, her legs were paralyzed; now the blessed one could only sit or lie. But she accepted this situation with humility and never ceased to thank the Heavenly Father for everything.

Believers talk about many miracles that happened through prayers to the blessed one.

Holy Matrona hears everyone who asks for her intercession before the Heavenly Father.

You can contact the old woman both within the walls of a cathedral, a temple, and at home, standing before her face in the Red Corner;
if possible, you need to visit the resting place of the old woman on the territory of the Intercession Monastery in Moscow and venerate her relics;
According to custom, it is advisable to bring fresh flowers (an odd number) to the grave and ask for help and protection.

Powerful prayer for the preservation of the family

For every conscious person, family is a treasure that is not easy to keep. Everyone in life has troubles, grief, difficulties and deprivations that disrupt the spiritual well-being of the family. We inevitably bring quarrels with friends, troubles at work, extraneous insults and deprivations into the house, although we always vow not to do this again. The family will support, reassure and set you in a good mood. Even in the most difficult situation, loved ones can bring you back to life and restore well-being in your family. Prayers and icons will help with this.

What if there is no peace and silence in the family? A person’s whole life collapses, because his strong rear has cracked or his loved one leaves you. All problems fade into the background; they no longer worry if difficulties arise in the family. Without restoring relationships, nothing good will come into life. But there is one working and proven option - prayer for the preservation of the family.

If your husband respected and loved you for many years, and then simply stopped noticing, there may even be black magic at work. Only the power of Orthodox prayer for the family can fight it. It helps you come to terms with and take a step towards reconciliation, and realize your mistakes if you are to blame for the current situation.

The Lord has the power to put you and your family members on the right path, you just need to turn to him with the right words, with prayer for a prosperous family. Start thanking God for everything he has given you now. Ask him to strengthen the relationship. The icon of the holy martyr Matrona of Moscow, the Mother of God, Christ, and Nicholas the Pleasant will help you convey your request to God.

A good prayer for well-being and prosperity in the family is the plot to the Mother of God. You can start here to feel the power of prayer for your family. You will need an icon, which is probably in the home of every Orthodox person. Read the sacred text every night, and even more if you feel the need. All prayers for a strong family must be written down on paper and stored in the same place as the icons. A letter is always more valuable than a printed text.

Help from Saint Matrona of Moscow

The help of Matrona of Moscow is highly valued in a variety of areas. Belief in her is confirmed by real miracles that happen to people who turn to the saint. A conspiracy against infertility, a prayer for the family, which is read so that the husband loves as before - all this is under her jurisdiction. Prayer for a happy family is a special text for all Orthodox Christians, the most sacred.

If possible, you need to visit the relics of Matrona of Moscow. If this is not possible, try writing a letter to the monastery asking for spiritual help. To protect your family from divorce, you also need an icon of the Matrona of Moscow, to which you will pray daily for family happiness, for well-being and prosperity in the family.

Anything can happen in life, but more than anything else we need to take care of our family. Matrona is the patroness of enduring values, healer and martyr. She will definitely help if you offer her prayers for the family. Pray for admonition and preservation of marriage, for prosperity in a friendly family. The spell for the icon of the Matrona of Moscow works very quickly and powerfully, you will see the result in just a few days.

What prayer will help to reason with your husband?

Prayer for the family is a means that is resorted to in extreme cases, although one should turn to the Lord more often and not for vain trifles. It reads like a conspiracy and each of its implementation returns happiness and love to your heart drop by drop. Family quarrels very often have a simple reason - the husband began to look at other women. It doesn’t matter why this happened: due to the fact that the wife lost her former attractiveness after the birth of children, she was simply tired of the relationship, fatigue had accumulated, or they were “nagging” at home, her faith had weakened... None of these reasons should be the basis of family discord and divorce.

In addition, another may use a black conspiracy, a love spell on your spouse, to help. The loved one will return to the family, even though husbands now like to torment the missus and threaten to leave the family. Understanding of the mistake comes, but not soon, and the belief that you can return is often not justified. At first, the man is glad that he lives with a young woman, but then he realizes how seriously he made a mistake, even to the point of divorce.

Preserving the family often becomes the burden of the wife herself. In a situation where talking and tears no longer help, many begin to look for a conspiracy or prayer so that the husband does not leave for another. In any case, you will need an icon of the Savior to justify yourself in His eyes. Buy it from the church and start reading it that day. Keep the letter, that is, the text rewritten in your own hand, near the icon. Prayer against cheating husband:

After this cleansing prayer, strong faith should return to you. You can proceed to the main text:

“Lord, Heavenly King, Comforter, help me in a good cause, in the salvation of my family. Hear me, sinful and unworthy, praying to You at this hour. With tears in my eyes, I pray to You: bring some understanding to the servant of God (name), my husband. Gather the lost and guide them to the right path. Teach him to be a good and worthy husband to his wife.

Arouse in the heart of God’s servant (name) love for me, his wife, and show all the corruption of his deeds. Melt his coldness, resurrect his love. Don't let the family be destroyed, give us family good.

Lord, protect my husband from the devil’s temptation and sinful life. Especially autumn and protect the servant of God (name) from all misfortunes and crafty demons who want to sacrifice him and bring him to hell alive.

Instruct my husband to live according to Your covenants: to love his wife, take care of her and be responsible for her. Enlighten Your servant (name) to start all over again, to forget and forgive all offenses against me.

Lord, I pray to You with all my heart, do not let our family fall apart. Hold me and my husband together. Grant us love for each other, patience and strength to live together according to Your commandments. I trust in Your help, Lord. Amen."

It is necessary to rely on the will of the Lord and humbly ask for help to save the family. The loved one will return, because the power of the prayer word and the conspiracy makes any person come to his senses. And experienced believers also talk about what happens like this: prayer for one’s family enlightens the wife and she understands that there is really nothing to hold on to, love turned out to be a mistake, and the husband needs to be let go on all fours.

Prayer for a friendly family

Orthodox families should follow the example of the marriage of Peter and Fevronia. The holy princes of Murom are very revered among the people. They carried pure love through the trials and tribulations of life, and at the end of their lives she accepted monasticism. They died on the same day, asked God for help in this, because they could no longer be in different places for a minute, their faith merged together.

People respected them and did not disobey them, because they were honest and righteous rulers. After death, their bodies were taken to different temples, because this was more correct from a religious point of view, but the next morning they found themselves together again, in the same coffin. That same “love to the grave” was embodied in the lives of the saints.

Prayers to Peter and Fevronia for the family should be offered if there are doubts about fidelity and love or if you want to return the old feelings that bloomed even before marriage, there is a need for help. In addition, you can pray to get rid of loneliness, find a soul mate and find long-awaited happiness. The sacred text is also suitable for promoting well-being in the family and children's families.

Read more about the life history of the holy spouses to be inspired by their example. The faith that the icon will reflect will only strengthen from this. A strong prayer for the wife’s admonition, so that the husband respects and the children obey more. You can read it three times every day. You should take care of preserving your family and love and helping your faith every day, not only in word, but also in deed.

If you have a young family and your loved one is starting to get on your nerves, take a moment to remember that arguments and arguments are normal. Then you will become one, but now you need to endure for the sake of love, but nothing more. Pray earnestly and ask for humility. If you manage to persuade your husband to read the plot, the effect will intensify, and you will feel that same family unity. Love spells, requests for help and prayers for a strong family reach holy icons faster and better.

It doesn’t matter which prayer you choose - the Savior, the Mother of God or the Matrona of Moscow. It is important that you like it, just like the icon, and that you feel the message that is embedded in the sacred text. And remember that a handwritten letter is more valuable than printed text. Be sure that you will gradually enter into a calm dialogue and become a happy husband and wife. Do not be afraid to turn to the saints asking for help. A strong family is able to survive all the hardships of life.

Love will become strong and indestructible, like a powerful river. . Usually a prayer for well-being in the family of Matrona of Moscow helps a lot. . This prayer belongs to the category of general and family prayers.

This is a very strong prayer for love, which can be said at home and in church, the main condition is that you must look at the icon of the Saint. . Powerful prayer for the preservation of the family.

Prayer for the preservation of the family to the Blessed Virgin Mary. Who should you pray to to save your family?

Family is the most valuable thing in the life of any person. It is she who becomes a reliable refuge and a source of peace in times of any troubles: be it problems at work, in her personal life, difficult situations. However, like any relationship dear to the heart, it must be valued and protected, keeping grains of goodness and sweeping away everything bad. Prayer for the preservation of your family can help you with this.

Before answering a number of questions regarding the preservation of the family hearth, let's clarify the very concept of prayer. It implies a certain mental or voiced appeal of a person to God: it can come from the depths of the soul (when the person praying comes up with the text of the prayer during the appeal) or be composed in poetic form. A prayer for the preservation of the family (like any other) is said in a low voice, in a whisper or in a chant.

An appeal to God can be presented as:

requests (“Please solve my situation... Help!”);
question and reproach (in biblical texts they speak of “murmuring against God”);;
forgiveness and repentance (“Forgive me”...), etc.

When is prayer used?

Any prayer is associated with any problems or difficulties in the life path of the person asking. For example, prayer for the family to the Most Holy Theotokos makes it possible to preserve its integrity. Each request is purely individual and applies to each specific person and case. For example, some women turn to saints with a request to return their husbands to the family, thinking that they have been “bewitched” (forced using magic to love another). Others were worried about the health of their spouse, who had gone to work far from home, etc.

Prayer can be associated with a solemn event (the birth of a child, a wedding, a promotion, etc.) or an alarming or even tragic event (illness or injury of a loved one, bankruptcy and other problems).

How to pray correctly?

Any request to the Almighty, like a prayer for the preservation of the family, involves a certain ritual. For example, it is traditionally believed that in order to pray, a person needs:

kneel down;
raise your eyes to the sky (ceiling or look at the icon);
close your hands (palms together, fingers together).

However, this is not quite true. A prayer for the family to the Blessed Virgin Mary can be voiced in any form (for example, lying on the sofa). It should be said at any time convenient for you. The main thing is that the text of the prayer reflects the purpose of the appeal.

Each prayer for the preservation of a family is associated with a certain hope and faith of a person that everything he asked for will come true.

Who should you pray to to save your family?

As in Greek and Egyptian mythology, biblical stories tell of a variety of saints, to whom experts in the field of religious teachings advise making requests. Moreover, each saint, according to legend, is responsible for a certain “sector”. For example, we can recall the appeal of one of the heroines of the film “D'Artagnan and the Three Musketeers” Catherine, who sang the song: “Saint Catherine! Send me a nobleman..." In this case, the saint was the patroness of unmarried ladies and helped them find suitable grooms.

Thus, the Blessed Virgin Mary has been the patroness of the family hearth for many centuries. “Semistrelnitsa” saved families from vain rumors, from evil and betrayal (both from men and women).

This is why the prayer for family to the Most Holy Theotokos is so beloved by married women. This is especially true for houses in which husbands, due to the nature of their work, are often forced to travel to distant lands.

Prayer to the Holy Mother of God to save the family

The prayer to the Mother of God for the preservation of the family has several interpretations, the most popular of which is the following:

Regardless of where the appeal to the Mother of God takes place, it is necessary, after pronouncing the cherished words, to place exactly three candles in front of the image and light them. Next, you need to wait until the candles burn out completely, cross yourself three times and sprinkle yourself with holy water.

Prayer to Saint Matrona of Moscow to save the family

Another petition for wives and mothers includes a prayer to Matrona for the preservation of the family. At the same time, they say the following out loud:

Since Matrona was considered the patroness of the poor and suffering, and was also, in modern language, “responsible for charity,” in addition to asking for help, the person asking for help, according to custom, had to make a certain donation for her. To this end, you need to treat a homeless person to one of this list of products:

In addition, in front of the image of Matrona, you can place a bouquet of living chrysanthemums as a sign of veneration. According to legend, you should ask Matrona for help if frequent quarrels begin to arise in your family due to housing problems. For example, you cannot purchase a separate apartment or house and are forced to live with your parents or other relatives. You can also turn to it when frequent scandals arise in the family over raising children or problems at work.

Prayer to confessors Samon, Aviv and Gury

The preservation of the family was considered the most sacred thing in the life of any person, regardless of his religion and nationality. In addition to female images of saints, for a long time members of one clan could turn for spiritual help to the confessors and great martyrs Samon, Aviv and Gurias.

These saints are considered special patrons of a happy life together for spouses. According to legend, these great martyrs were publicly executed by the pagans because of their rejection of the faith of their fellow tribesmen (they denied polytheism and prayed to only one god).

This prayer for peace in the family looked something like this:

According to legend, it was this appeal to the saints that could protect all household members from possible troubles and misfortunes.

Prayer to the Evangelist John the Theologian

When frequent quarrels arose between husband and wife, and disagreements drove them further and further away from each other, an appeal was made to the Evangelist John the Theologian.

It is this saint who is popularly called the “apostle of love,” since for his love for God he experienced persecution from city authorities and idolaters and was imprisoned. As a result, he lived in torment and exile until he was 105 years old.

It is believed that praying to this saint is necessary for parents of schoolchildren who have any psychological problems due to family troubles, to normalize relations between a man and a woman in marriage, etc.

Prayer to the Mother of God Semistrelnitsa

Another strong prayer for a strong family union is an appeal to the Mother of God Semistrelnitsa. The icon depicts the Mother of God without the Child with seven arrows piercing Her heart. It is believed that this amount is enough to neutralize all the negativity that can fall on a happy family at any time.

Turning to the Seven-Strelnitsa, those who pray usually ask her to protect their family hearth from human envy, from illness, from carnal temptation, from the evil eye, etc. The image of the Virgin Mary must be hung near the front door (or above it). They say that in this way you will not allow into your home those people who wish you and your loved ones harm.

In conclusion, we will say that regardless of whether you direct your appeal regarding family well-being to God, saints, archangels or great martyrs, you must back up your words with faith. Otherwise, you won't succeed! Peace in your home, prosperity, love and great universal happiness!

Prayers for the preservation of the family. Prayer for family to saints

Family in every person’s life is the most sacred and precious treasure! Often we all have a hard time in life, we are met with grief, difficulties, and sometimes deprivation. We quarrel with friends, we have troubles at work, business failures, lack of time, health problems, and so on and so forth. But! If we have a family and everything there is quiet, smooth and calm, then all the worst problems fade into the background. When you come home after hard work with a bag of problems, and your beloved wife and gentle, loving children greet you at the door, you are visited by a feeling of confidence, happiness and peace. Your strength returns, new thoughts and ideas appear, you come back to life again! You are soaring with happiness!

What to do if not everything is ok

But unfortunately, sooner or later, the peace and silence of the family begins to crack. And for a person this is the hardest thing he can endure in life! The whole world fades around when problems happen in the family. Nothing will bring you back to a normal, happy life until you solve your family problems! On our website you will find many useful tips on how to save a family, how to overcome the difficulties that occur in all families, the reasons for the breakdown of families, how children suffer due to the divorce of their parents.

And now we would like to offer you one piece of advice on how to save your family. Prayer to save the family- this is the best way to save a marriage! After all, the main task of a family is to preserve love and carry it throughout life! And also this is the birth and raising of children. These are the basics of marriage. And it is prayer that will help you overcome your pride and meet your loved one halfway. Prayer will soften your heart, the Lord will guide you on the right path and will help you throughout your entire married life. But you need to pray not only when you start having problems in your family, but also when everything is fine with you. You must thank the Lord and his saints for peace and love in your family and ask the Lord to warm your hearts and strengthen you.

Prayers for the preservation of the family

Prayer for the preservation of the family to the Blessed Virgin Mary

Most Blessed Lady, take my family under Your protection. Instill in the hearts of my husband and our children peace, love and non-questioning of all that is good; Do not allow anyone from my family to experience separation and difficult parting, to premature and sudden death without repentance. And save our house and all of us living in it from fiery ignition, thieves' attacks, every evil of the situation, various types of insurance and devilish obsession.

Yes, we too, collectively and separately, openly and secretly, will glorify Your Holy Name always, now and ever, and forever and ever. Amen.

Most Holy Theotokos, save us!

Prayer to St. Nicholas the Wonderworker for the family

O all-praised and all-pious bishop, great Wonderworker, Saint of Christ, Father Nicholas, man of God and faithful servant, man of desires, chosen vessel, strong pillar of the church, bright lamp, shining star and illuminating the whole universe: you are a righteous man, like a blossoming date planted in the courts of your Lord, living in Myra, you were fragrant with the world, and the myrrh flowed with the ever-flowing grace of God. By your procession, holy father, the sea was illuminated, when your many-wonderful relics marched into the city of Barsky, from east to west praise the name of the Lord.

O most graceful and wondrous Wonderworker, quick helper, warm intercessor, kind shepherd, saving the verbal flock from all troubles, we glorify and magnify you, as the hope of all Christians, the source of miracles, the protector of the faithful, the wise teacher, those who hunger for a feeder, those who cry are glad, the naked are clothed , the sick physician, the sea-floating steward, the liberator of captives, the nourisher and protector of widows and orphans, the guardian of chastity, the meek chastiser of infants, the old fortification, the fasting mentor, the toiling rapture, the poor and wretched abundant wealth.

Hear us praying to you and running under your roof, show your intercession for us to the Most High, and intercede with your God-pleasing prayers, everything useful for the salvation of our souls and bodies: preserve this holy monastery (or this temple), every city and all, and every Christian country, and people living from all bitterness with your help: We know, we know that the prayer of the righteous can do much to hasten for good: for you, the righteous, according to the most blessed Virgin Mary, the representative to the All-Merciful God, imams, and to yours, most kind father, We humbly flow to warm intercession and intercession: protect us like a cheerful and good shepherd, from all enemies, destruction, cowardice, hail, famine, flood, fire, sword, invasion of foreigners, and in all our troubles and sorrows, give us a helping hand, and open the doors of God’s mercy, since we are unworthy to behold the heights of heaven, from the multitude of our iniquities, we are bound by the bonds of sin, and we have not done the will of our Creator nor have we preserved his commandments.

By the same token, we bow our contrite and humble hearts to our Creator, and we ask for your fatherly intercession to Him: Help us, O Pleasant of God, so that we do not perish with our iniquities, deliver us from all evil and from all things that are resistant, guide our minds and strengthen our heart is in the right faith, in which, through your intercession and intercession, neither wounds, nor rebuke, nor pestilence, nor any wrath, will give me life in this century, and will deliver me from my standing, and will make me worthy to join all the saints. Amen.

Prayer to Matrona for the preservation of well-being in the family

Prayer to the holy martyrs Guria, Samon and Aviv for the preservation and salvation of the family

Prayer for the family of Martyr Paraskeva

I am looking for prayers that can save my family. I love my wife and daughter very much. The wife decided to leave without any reason and filed for divorce. This is how we haven't lived together for 3 months. But I love them very much and I don’t know how else to reason with her.

Egor, there was a time when my husband left the family and filed for divorce, leaving us with our son. On the advice and blessing of my confessor, I went to St. Petersburg to the tomb of St. Xenia of St. Petersburg right before the hearing of the divorce case. I came to her chapel with prayer for 2 days. After the first day, my husband wrote to me that he apologized for everything he said in quarrels. After praying for the second day, I went to Moscow. Mother Ksenia heard my prayer on the day of the divorce, when I returned to Moscow, the husband took the application for divorce and returned to the family. It was something unimaginable!

I believe that if you turn to her with pure prayer, she will definitely help. The main thing is to believe.

God bless you and your family

Olga, thank you for your feedback. This is truly empowering. A year ago, my wife asked for a divorce, but I managed to convince her not to rush. A year later, the relationship was about to break up again for no particular reason, although I did something I didn’t do when we were dating. In fact, he is ready to do anything to save his family and children.

Olga, what prayer should you read? My husband said that he doesn’t love me anymore for a very long time (we’ve been together for 15 years). but so far he doesn’t seem to be leaving forever, but very often he doesn’t spend the night at home, he goes to see friends, goes out with them, explaining that he doesn’t want to go home and see me... We have two small children. who love him very much and he loves them too. he is not ready to leave them, he is ready to continue to live with us... but it’s so hard for everyone... I love him very much and I just can’t breathe from the thought. that he will not be with us...

We have been living as husband and wife for three years. Before this, we dated for a year and have been together for four years. We do not live in marriage, he never even hinted at me to sign, but of course I always wanted this in my heart. He introduced me as his wife. I also always spoke of him as a husband. And all this time everything was wonderful with us, but the last three months have passed, as if my beloved husband, even if not legal, was replaced. He often began to be absent from home for several days, I always pretended when he came that everything was fine, without asking him any questions, although I understood perfectly well what and with whom it was connected. She silently experienced everything within herself. And three weeks ago he went to his mother, she is already very old. I turned off all my phones, communication was reduced to nothing, and it turns out that it keeps me in some kind of ignorance. To my question, “when will you come home,” he doesn’t answer me. My condition now is that my life was taken away from me! For the third month now I have not known peace, every day I pray to the Lord, the Mother of God, and Matronushka to help me return my husband! Just like a devoted dog waits for its owner, I wait for my beloved husband every day. And there is no need to talk about how much I love him, because I don’t even want to live without him! Help me please!

Vita, I really sympathize with your grief. And I know from my own experience what a bitter feeling it is when a loved one, to whom you give all the best in life, betrays you. But no matter how bitter it is, understand one important fact, no matter how hard you try to please this person, you are not family with him and he does not owe you anything. There is no marriage, as I understand it, you have an official marriage through the registry office, which means you weren’t married. So why expect help from holy saints if marriage is not illuminated by the Lord? There is nothing to expect from him either, why torture and humiliate yourself so much? If he treats you so disrespectfully that he does not deign to tell you where he is, this means that he does not value you and is not afraid of losing you. Think for yourself, he lives with you as with his wife, receiving all the pleasures and privileges of a married man. You hold him as your master. At the same time, he does not need to take on any obligations and any responsibility for you. By entering into a legal marriage and getting married, a man seems to be telling a woman by this act that he loves her and wants to walk the same path with her all his life, to love and protect until death do us part. Even before God, the husband at the Last Judgment will be responsible for his wife, as the eldest in the family. But in your case it turns out that he is nobody to you. This is equivalent to a dog running down the street, saw a female and jumped in, did his job and ran on. What kind of love is this? A man, when he loves, he will lay down his soul so that no one dares to point a finger at you. And this one made a concubine out of you, and this is a disgrace in the eyes of God. So don't cry or grieve for him, he's not worth it. The best thing to do while he's gone is to pack your things and leave, or his things if this is your place. Don’t wait for him, as you say “like a devoted dog,” but on the contrary, when he comes, throw him out the door like a garbage dog. Dear women, do not take dogs into your bed. a man who induces cohabitation and does not marry is a “stray dog”, this is exactly the name my grandmother came up with for these pseudo-husbands. But after this, you can go to church to confess to the priest and receive communion; at confession you must repent of the sin of cohabitation and do not agree to this again. Then pray to the Lord and the Lord will help you, He will definitely support you and will not leave you. And let the “dog” choose to be a legitimate husband or remain a “dog”.

Help for the sake of GOD to save the family, we lived for 10 years and have a son, Nikita, 7 years old, but something broke with my wife Anna, she doesn’t want to see or hear me. Yes, I’m not a gift, I have no bad habits. I’ve already tried everything to measure it out, but they don’t even want to hear me .and I love them so very much. I can’t go to St. Petersburg to pray, financial difficulties don’t allow it. Maybe there is some help, help me, I will pray for you all my life.

I have a similar situation..my husband left a month ago...I have three little sons...I’m ready for a lot to save the family..my husband asks for a divorce...I’m ready for a lot to save the family..I love him very much...I pray to Mother Matronushka for help.. God bless you with family happiness...

Andrey, I have the same problem... and I’m not a gift, and my wife’s name is also Anna and we lived together for 10 full years... and we also have children, two.

I pray for her every evening...

Everything will be according to the Will of God.

You need to sincerely Believe.

I have the same story. We lived for 20 years, married from the first day of marriage, our son was 14 years old, we all built a business and a house together. And then I found myself a woman and spent three years at the festival with her until I found her.

I left home, today I begged to come back, no, that’s all, I can’t live like this anymore.

“Sorry for everything and be happy,” these are his parting words. Tomorrow he files for divorce. And she cried and begged and took her to churches and went to church to ask for forgiveness. But he can't live with me. It’s sad, sad, I don’t know what to do. I give up, I don’t want to eat or drink, I’m tired of crying too, it doesn’t help.

He is not afraid that we are married. He waves his hand and that’s it. Where to go, what prayers to read already, help with advice((.

Let him go, pretend that you can live without him. Of course it is difficult, but necessary. Some time will pass, it’s different for everyone, you will see that he will still try to get you back. Only then the question will be whether you want it. Then it's up to you to decide. While time passes, take care of yourself so as not to think about it, find an interesting hobby. Time will put everything in its place. Good luck!

Read the Psalter yourself, order the magpies and the sleepless one, and pray, pray, dear. I’m in the same situation, but I don’t get discouraged. And themselves to confession and communion and prayer by agreement of Mr. BULGAR Vladimir

GOLOVIN. GOD'S HELP TO YOU

The Lord is sending you trials. Pass it with dignity! Without grumbling and despondency. And pray for your husband, prove to God your love for your spouse, your self-sacrifice for him. And you will be rewarded.

Read the akathist to Guria, Samona and Aviva for 40 days. Take a blessing from your spiritual father or from the priest with whom you are confessing. There will be such love and harmony between husband and wife! Amazing!

My wife and I have been let down for three months now, we have three children, and nine years of married life behind us. I hurt her a lot, but I only began to appreciate her when I lost her. And I asked her and begged her, but she ignores me and there are reasons for that. So, appreciate what you already have, and don’t cry after the loss, and if there is a conflict and reasons, then try to talk to your soulmate and look for together there is an alternative solution and God will definitely help you. And I ask you to be sincere towards the spouses, and resolve the quarrel with a spark, and do not put out the fire with a spoon. Love each other and enjoy every minute of life, and may everything be fine with you and may God grant you health and mutual understanding.

Nikolay, hello. I also have a cold relationship with my wife, my character is not so hot, if you mess things up, then I apologize. And the wife is also a character, we’ve been married for 9 years, our child together is 8 years old, and my wife has a daughter, she’s 15 years old, a transitional age, and we fight about her. And the fact that there is not enough money is the reason for conflicts with me, we both work, loans are pressing. I try to go to Temple, and my son goes to Sunday school. I pray for my family and friends. God help! Who has discord in the Family?

I love my husband, Genochka, very much! Married, but 4.5 years passed and I started communicating with another man in the family before this there was no discord, although my husband was often busy, did not pay attention to me and the child, and then he changed and everything got better, but I was just arguing stupidity, Now I can’t forgive myself for this and my husband feels bad at heart, I really want to save my family, I love both my husband and child. Help me please!

We have been living with my husband for 20 years, during this time I forgave him everything, and not long ago I announced that he didn’t need me, no more explanations. Help me, what to do, we have children.

Let him go Elena. He will return. The only question is - when? Mine wants to come back after 15 years, but why do I need him now? I went through all the difficulties with the children myself, raised them, educated them, married them, I help look after my grandchildren, but no one needed him in his old age. Now he needs children, grandchildren and me. They are such assholes.

I ask you, Lord, hear these people and give them happiness.

We lived together for 20 years, two cool daughters. For the last couple of years we have been replaced, he didn’t recognize me or her, we separated, I’ve been living alone for almost a year, it hurts to say nothing without her and the children, if I had known I wouldn’t have been born. I analyze myself, what I did, what kind of ………….. I was. Over time, I forgave her everything, I try every day to wish her health, love, prosperity and goodness, my soul became much easier. But I can’t understand who and what to pray for, or to return my family or start a new one. One doesn’t have the strength to live anymore, and with her, the nerves won’t be enough either. I wish all my brothers in misfortune and faith in Christ that everything will be okay and peaceful.

“I try every day to wish her health, love, prosperity and goodness” - I think you are on the right path. And to return the family or start a new one - the heart will tell you.

Start a new one if the divorce is not your fault. Since according to the Gospel it will be fornication

Mys and I lived as my husband for 30 years. I always trusted him in everything. But for the last 2 years I don’t recognize him. Became secretive, don’t share anything with me. Everything is silent. Neighbors and work colleagues saw him with another woman, I don’t know what to do. Let him go? Although he says that he loves me and does not admit anything, I wish him health, happiness, well-being. I love him very much. He will soon be 60

Start going to church, preferably with your husband. there God will tell you what to do.

We've been together for 4 years, we've been dating for a year and we've been living together for three years. We lived in perfect harmony, never argued, just petty arguments, but if I saw that my husband was starting to get angry, I shut up and didn’t contradict him in anything. We don’t have any children together, we’re not the same age anymore, he has a daughter and a grandson, I have two sons and a grandson, but I’ve always considered us one family. I always tried to be like an ambulance to him. She fulfilled any of his requests, supported him in everything and never refused anything. But now it’s been the third month since he was replaced. Frequent absence from home for several days and when he returned home, I pretended that everything was fine without asking him any questions, although I understood everything perfectly well with what and with whom everything was connected... And three weeks ago he went to his Mom, she is already very elderly with him and he goes to see her three times a year for a couple of weeks. I always welcomed this, but this time he left, as usual, but he just turned off the phone, reduced all communication to nothing, and when I ask him “when will you come home?” he doesn’t answer me anything....(((I can’t understand anything what’s happening, because when he left, everything was fine. And now he keeps me completely in the dark and I don’t know what to think? From just the thought that maybe be the worst, I’m suffocating...(((It’s as if my life was taken away...(((I love him very much and like a devoted dog waits for its owner, so I wait for my beloved husband and every day I pray to the Lord our God and the Most Holy The Mother of God and Mother Matronushka for help, so that they can help me return my beloved husband... Please help! And may the Lord bless you all!

Pray to God to sort everything out so that it will be better for all of you. Then go to the salon, get a new haircut, buy new shoes and a dress. Take care of yourself. Turn off your phone. Go on a couple of dates. Feel welcome. Raise yourself and your self-esteem. Let him worry. Look for beauty and happiness everywhere around you. God created a beautiful world around, do not let despondency enter your soul, and you will see all this beauty! Respect and love yourself, and then and only then will they love and wait for you like a devoted dog, and not bully you who knows where. May you rest in peace and God bless you!

Tell me, kind people, what should I do? My husband and I have been married for 23 years and have three children. He has been working on shifts for 16 years, he left for 1-2.5 months and everything was fine with us. We built a house and settled in. I trusted him, I wasn’t jealous .We got married earlier on the day of marriage. And suddenly 2 years ago I noticed that my husband had grown cold and didn’t even want to sleep next to me, and all this after he started working in the regional center and lived there for weeks. In the winter I found out that he had There has been a woman for 2 years, my age. She left her husband, a good man, her daughter and her father remained to live. They replaced my husband, he became insane. She says that love passed with me for a long time, that he will be glad if I find myself a good one man, that he doesn’t leave me, he has a responsibility to me, he’ll finish all the things he’s planned with the construction of the house, he supports me financially. But he doesn’t live with me, he works in Moscow. What should I do? I am a young woman, I also want love and affection, I can’t look for a man, my faith in God forbids me, and my husband, as I understand it, is not going to return. I pray, I read prayers. It’s like my cross and I have to carry it, but he will he sin? I feel sorry for the children, children are often responsible for the sins of their parents. And resentment gnaws at me. Why do I need all this? I haven’t been able to come to my senses for six months now.

Faith does not prohibit finding a new husband if the marriage breaks up through no fault of yours. if a husband commits fornication, then that person is no longer a husband. So you can easily sell for divorce and alimony. And you are looking for someone else. Such a life with a fornicator is not a life-saving cross at all, but very dangerous, especially for the spiritual development of a child.

A year ago my husband left. We lived for 4 years, the child was 3. We got married. He left because he was tired of my requests to take responsibility for his family, for his son, for me, I said, I blame him, although it was mainly me and my parents who supported the family financially, all solutions to problems were also my brother’s responsibility. His mother always forgave our marriage because she believed that I put my family too first and that I wanted to live well with my husband and give all the best to the child. She herself has been officially married for the 5th time, there have also been civil marriages, it seems to her that the main thing is that everything is good in the family, and if there are problems, then such a family needs to be changed and she convinced her husband of this. He left. They didn’t live together for three months; he didn’t want to communicate with the child and didn’t do that. During this time, an official divorce was filed. Then he returned, I believed him and even took the first step towards him. But then tons of lies and all sorts of petty betrayals began to spread. Mistrust and all the problems have multiplied. He never took responsibility, the child irritated him, and I also irritated him with my requests that a man should take responsibility for his family, if not completely, then at least equally with his wife. But he thought that I was nagging and constantly nagging him, although with solutions to all the problems it became even worse. Even when I got to the hospital, my mother urgently flew in from another city and she came to the hospital in the morning, where they were going to operate on me with an erroneous diagnosis, and I myself was not able to find out anything, since the temperature was 40 for two days. And my husband said, well, there are doctors there, and they sorted it out in the end. He really drove the child into hysterics, with his “upbringing”, which is pure moral violence, and even had a hand in it, the child irritated him, he constantly snapped at him, unless the son sat silently and watched cartoons all evening, at 4 of the year. 1.5 months ago he left again... I tried for a long time to talk to him, to convince him that he shouldn’t do this, that it would be painful and hard for the child, that we just need to solve all the problems that have arisen together and try to become a normal loving family, for the sake of our son. I even went so far as to cry and simply ask him not to leave. That I love him. In response, I received very painful and harsh treatment - offensive phrases and words. Then she asked to communicate with her son, but almost 2 months passed, he came to his son without shoes, and did not call. He, it seems, went to his mother again... I don’t even know anything about his whereabouts. The child cries for his dad almost every day, gets upset and worries. I began to fear that I might leave him too. I started taking him to a psychologist and to church. We pray in the evenings for the health of everyone. I always go to church, and I pray in front of the icons, unwashed, I order services and went to Ksenyushka for 3 days in a row, then my son got sick and now it’s not possible to go to her every day, but I wrote notes and prayed that my husband would come to his senses, so that “grew up” and fell in love with us, so that he would return and become a loving and caring husband and father, so that we could overcome all problems and become a kind, happy family in which happy children will grow up. I don't know if this is possible. We are still married in church, we went to get married, but the priest said, “You won’t live together for a year, then come.” I’m scared and hurt, I’m offended both for my son and for myself. I want to be happy, loved, but I also love my husband and believe that God cannot make a mistake - since God united us in a church marriage, since he gave us a son, then we should be together and it is he who should raise his son, since God sent him this boy. But I’m scared that my son will be disfigured by his attitude, and I want to believe that everything can change and can be good. I can’t imagine another man nearby, and I’m afraid that I won’t be able to forgive. In general, I pray and pray, but my thoughts overwhelm me, I cry and see no way out. I don’t know what to do, I don’t know how to keep and make our family happy. God bless you all who read my message. I need support and advice, I will be grateful to you!

Peace be with you Olesya. Don’t be discouraged and don’t despair, you are doing the right thing by going to church. There are often times in people's lives when it seems as if the world has gone hopelessly dark and as if God has turned away. But the Lord never turns away from a sincerely believing person who has repented of every sin, who truly strives for Him with all his heart. And you just need to strive more for the Lord than for your husband. You need to rely only on God; it is useless to rely on people. As the Bible says, “Thou shalt not make unto thee any graven image.” We women very often make idols out of our husbands, as if subconsciously expecting from them that they will always take care of us, like the Lord Himself. But not one person is capable of such care and love as the Lord. And the world did not converge on love for her husband. There are many other people in the world who desperately need love or even the simplest attention. Try to find people in your environment, and perhaps even in your city, who are worse off than you today. Try to do a good deed for them for the glory of God and you will see what a surge of strength the Lord will give to your soul. Moreover, for your kindness, the Lord will arrange your life in such a way that you will not need anything. In your prayers, humbly ask the Lord for His will in your life, and not for what you want for yourself. You don’t know what the Lord has prepared for you and you don’t see the future. Or maybe this was God’s providence and the Lord freed you from a person who will bring you a lot of troubles in the future. Or maybe, on the contrary, the Lord allowed this situation in your life to admonish you and repent, or maybe to admonish your spouse. In a word, pray to the Lord that His will be done in your life. Pray to the Lord like this: Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me, a sinner, and arrange my destiny as You want. Help me R.B. (church name) and my husband R.B. (husband’s name) save our souls and gain the riches and treasures of Your Eternal and Imperishable Kingdom. Arrange my path and guide me along the path to eternal life and your light. Enlighten the All-Powerful and All-Holy Father of my husband R.B. (such and such), enlighten him and save Him, for he is good and a lover of mankind. If it is Your will and it will be for the good of both of us, then return my husband to the bosom of the family, and if it is not Your will, Lord, then do not allow this to happen. Bless and protect. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

A believer should not beg or beg something from God regarding the structure of life and the future. The Lord is not a store or a vending machine where he came, put a penny in a donation box and got what you want. This only happens in fairy tales about Aladdin, where the genie fulfills his wishes. And a Christian fulfills the will of God, because he knows that He is a loving Father and believes that his beloved Daddy will not wish him harm.

Julia, thank you! I read your review for Olesya; in May, separation came to my house after 20 years of living together.

You know, I have a similar situation. I will also pray for you and ask for you, because in the Bible it says where two and three ask, I will fulfill everything

Olesya, hello! Your story is terribly bitter and sad. Go to church, raise your son. Maybe God took you away from such a husband. Think that everything will be fine. God is with you and he will help you.

Olesya, hello! I am very touched by your story.. I sympathize and worry about you. My family has slightly different problems and that’s why I’m on this site.

You are very excited and on the verge of a breakdown, it seemed to me... If this is so, can I give advice... not even advice, but personal experience.

Try to calm down. The head should be cold. I usually take the children and go somewhere for a walk with them, then we go to some cafe, I see how happy they are and this calms me down (I have five)) When they go to bed, I’m in a good mood, after praying, I begin to sort out the current situation.” shelves” and think how it will be good for me and the children this way or that way. And believe me, the solution somehow comes on its own, honestly)) The main thing is a cool head and peace of mind, the prayer of the Optina Elders helps me a lot.

The man who was with you, according to your description, he is simply not worthy of you and your son. Let him go...Don't think about him. If you spent so much time returning him to the family and there was zero result... Tell your son good things about dad, say that dad loves him, but he is confused and it will be easier for the child to experience separation. When you, first of all, love yourself and life, everything will work out. Maybe your husband will see changes in you, he will see that without him your world has not collapsed and you don’t really need him... although people don’t change, there is a chance and suddenly a miracle will happen and he will rethink his behavior and attitude towards his family. Although by this time you may not be interested in this person at all.

God gives us all trials and we just have to accept them. Calm your soul and start living for yourself and your son. Everything will be alright. You'll see))

My husband and I have been living together for 7 years, our son is 6 years old. 9 months ago I found out that he has a mistress for about two years.. And a month ago he admitted to me that she was expecting a child from him.. After much painful thought/experience/rethinking, he decided that he wanted to save our family. Be with us. But I don’t know how I can live with this now?

But my situation is different. I myself am not a wife, not a husband, but a daughter. Lately my parents have been fighting a lot, it almost came to the point of divorce. I don’t even know what to do. Hands down...

You need to go to church urgently, where several people gather for the sake of the Lord, prayers are heard more clearly. God help you

May the Almighty reward each family with what each individual deserves

I am sure that prayer is an effective means of turning to God. Always helps me!

Hello! I really need your advice.

I have been married to my wife for 12 years and have a daughter, 11 years old. In the early years of marriage, I made mistakes because I put friends and going out first. As a result, my wife got tired of it and after three years of married life she left. We haven't lived together for 3 months. During this time, I realized a lot and set my priorities. God gave us the chance - we started living together again. Seven happy years. Soul to soul. No quarrels, but...the war began and I was forced to go defend my home. After a year of war, I was wounded and contused, but continued to fight. Although the consequences of contusion have borne fruit. In a state of alcoholic intoxication, I began to become aggressive. No, I never laid a finger on my wife. A year later, I left the service and stopped drinking, as it was destroying my family. I am not left without work and I earn enough money to feed and clothe my family in this difficult time for our city. Three weeks ago I found out that my wife has been cheating on me for a year now. I didn’t make a scandal, I met with my lover and without fists I explained to him not to interfere with the family. He stepped aside. But the wife was replaced. She constantly tells me that she doesn’t love me and doesn’t want me. And everything that happened before was that she was pretending. In response to all the arguments about family values, she says that this is just my opinion and I am imposing it on her. She doesn’t care that the child is hysterical and doesn’t want us to live separately.

But the most important thing: my wife is my favorite person in the world and I can’t imagine life without her. The thought of death does not leave me, because I simply don’t see any further meaning in life. But I can’t commit suicide, because it would be a sin that I won’t be able to repent of and it will remain in my family! I haven’t eaten for several days now - I have a complete aversion to food and no hunger. Sleep a couple of hours a night. Constant headaches and mental loss. Life has driven me to a dead end and I don’t see any further meaning. The Lord turned away from me. What should I do? How to live on if life has no meaning? Many will say: live for the sake of the child, but in 7 years she will already have her own family, and all parents leave sooner or later. My comrades died in the war and a year later the children live as they always did. I can't love anyone else. What then is the meaning of life? What to do?

Jesus said: I am the way and the truth and the life!

As long as you see the meaning of life in marriage, then it is not the Lord who has turned away from you, but you from him, or you have simply become blind. The Lord is waiting for you. We need to pray. By the way, in the temple prayer is much stronger, since several people are praying at the same time just for you

Let everything be good in our family, let everything be good in our country, let everything be good all over the world! Amen

My husband and I have been together for 6 years, officially married for 4.5 years. We have a daughter - she is almost 3 years old and I am now pregnant, waiting for another princess. My husband and I had quarrels, sorrows and joys, we went through a lot together, but now it’s like he’s been replaced. He doesn’t feel like himself, he says that his feelings for me have disappeared, he wants to leave. She doesn’t realize that I’m in a position, I’ve been crying for a month now and there’s no point. I love him very much and I can’t live without him... what should I do?

Pray to the Lord God for your husband, even if things don’t work out right away, pray anyway.

Is the Lord Creator of the World worth the trouble for Him to fix everything if His Will is so?!

I have a similar situation, almost the same as Andrey, who wrote above about his misfortune.

My wife’s name is also Anna, and I’m also not a gift, and I also have children, two boys, and we’ve lived together for 10 full years. She, too, has been replaced for about two months now and she also says that she has stopped loving her.

But nothing, I pray every evening for the Family, for the wife, for the children.

I ask God to fix everything and improve my relationship with my wife. And I sincerely believe that if this is in God’s Plans, then everything will come to its senses over time, get better, and get better. The Lord is the great Creator, He can do everything, absolutely everything.

God cannot go against the will of man; free will is His gift. He can forcefully return a person to the family only if he sees that this is possible from the hearts of both sides.

God bless you all! May you all receive goodness and happiness. I’m also having a bad time while we’ve been living separately for 2 months. I pray and wait. But since the Lord sends me suffering, it means he loves me. The Lord does not send suffering to those who do not have a heart. We must endure and pray

Please tell me how to live further? The wife has been married for 6 years and has a child for 5 years. We are married. I haven't found peace for two months now. I found out that my wife found someone else and fell in love with him. There were no quarrels, I don’t drink, I’ve never offended her in my life, I cared and protected her, my wife and child are everything to me, my whole life is in them. I pray every day for their well-being and health, for family reunification. I don’t know what’s next, how next. Forgave my wife because... I love her very much, I want the child to be happy. My wife says that she cannot give me what I want, she no longer looks at me as a man, but also adds, what if I’m wrong and this love for someone else will pass. Help with a word...advice

Hello. If she says that she may be wrong, then you can take advantage of this and invite her to a general prayer in the temple and to a conversation with the priest. A wise person from the outside can completely bring a doubting person to reason, and common prayer should help

My dears...there is no strength anymore...! My husband and I have been married for 5 years, the last 2 years of which we lived like hell! We moved to Moscow, here he made new friends, it’s like they replaced the person! He’s 30 years old... maybe there’s a crisis he has, plus a family crisis... you don’t understand what’s going on in his head! Although, of course, he is usually silent. He doesn’t talk about his feelings and emotions... But it turned out that he doesn’t love me... it seems like because of the child with me... although I I see that he is drawn to me! And at the same time he pushes himself away from me... he always leaves with his friends, and they are all in yoga... vegetarians... meditate there all day long. I’m already tired of fighting for him! And then I became pregnant with my second child, but he didn’t want him... and agreed to leave! I’m dying of grief... I had to commit this sin! I regret it very much! I wanted this baby... My husband and I quarreled and went to see my mother for a while, he began to ignore us! he doesn’t answer calls! My daughter keeps asking about dad... I have nothing to answer! It’s so sad... so much terrible has happened... so much betrayal! I can’t believe that all this is happening... and I still continue to love him! Well. I can’t help it! I want us to be a family, I want children from him, I want him to love me with all his heart! Now he’s on a long business trip, and we’re moving to another city to live... because he doesn’t need us... but I I believe with all my heart and hope that he will return... come to his senses... understand how many destinies he has broken and want to fix everything! I also have a girl friend... she has a gift... I don’t know whether it’s a sin or not, but she told me that there’s something about her husband they did something bad... and even said who... they say that’s why he’s chatting back and forth...

I don’t know what to think anymore... who to pray to... who to ask for help! So much grief! So much terrible has happened! I don’t know how to live with this and how to fix everything... but I believe with all my heart that someday he will understand everything and come back...(

Read this prayer every time something goes wrong in the house. It will help smooth out all the rough edges and cool down the brawlers. The prayer is:

Jesus Christ, son of God, and Ever-Virgin Mary, our mother and intercessor! You live in heaven, you watch over us, help us in our hardships. You have made us husband and wife, uniting us as a crown, loving people, and commanding us to live with each other in sorrow and in joy, just as Your heavenly angels live in heaven, they glorify You, but they do not quarrel with each other and do not use abusive words. We are comforted by Your grace, we delight in the intercession of the Ever-Virgin Mary, we are touched by the singing of Your angels! Give us peace and tranquility forever and ever, give us a long life and dove-like loyalty, so that there will be love between us and no resentment and cold, and no discord and filth. Have mercy on our children and give them peace and tranquility forever and ever and extend their years to deep old age and do not punish them for their foolishness. Calm their hearts and guide them along the true path, not false, for the Lord is our souls. And give our home peace and tranquility forever and ever. And protect us from the thieves of the night, day, morning and evening, and from the evil of man, and from the evil eye, and from heavy thoughts. Do not, Lord, bring the lightning of heaven or the fire of earth into our house. Save and preserve, protect from sorrows and misfortunes.
Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, Holy God, have mercy on us and do not let us perish in accursed poverty, but lead us to the light with Your ineffable light. Will with us forever and ever. Amen."

It will be even better if you rewrite the prayer by hand and put it in a secret place where you keep holy water and church candles. Holy water must be collected every year and kept in a large bottle in the house. After cleaning, sprinkle it on all corners; if one of your household gets sick, place a handkerchief moistened with holy water on his forehead; if someone fights or makes a scandal, spray it in his face to cool his ardor.

A parable about how to restore warmth and tenderness in a relationship.

One day a young guy asked a wise man:
- How do you manage to maintain family happiness? You and your wife never quarrel, everyone respects you and seeks advice. What's the secret?
The sage smiled and called out to his wife. A smiling and beautiful woman entered the room. She seemed to radiate happiness with her entire appearance:
- Yes, dear!
- Honey, please prepare the dough for the pie.
- Fine!
She went out and twenty minutes later came to say that the dough was ready.
- Add to it the best ghee from our reserves. And all those nuts we saved for our son's birthday cake.
- Fine.
And again she came ten minutes later, and her husband said:
- Add our yard clay there too. And then bake it.
“Okay,” said the wife.
And half an hour later this strange pie was already in her hands.
- Of course, we won’t eat it! - said the husband. - Give this to the pigs on the street.
“Okay,” said the wife.

The guest was shocked. Is this really possible? Not a single word against, I did everything my husband said. Even when he suggested an absurd thing.

And the man decided to repeat the experiment at home. When he entered there, he immediately heard his wife’s laughter. My wife and her friends were playing a board game.
- Wife! - the man turned to her.
- I'm busy! — my wife shouted irritably from the bedroom.
- Wife!
Ten minutes later she appeared:
- What do you need?
- Put the dough on!
- Are you crazy! The house is full of food and I have something to do!
- Put the dough on, I said!
Half an hour later, the wife irritably announced that the dough was ready.
- Add the best nuts and all the melted butter there.
- Are you crazy! The day after tomorrow is my sister's wedding, and these nuts are needed for the pie!
- Do as I say!
The wife put only part of the nuts into the dough, and then went out to her husband again.
- Now add clay to the dough!
-Are you out of your mind? Did you transfer so many products in vain?
- Add clay, I say! And then bake it.

An hour later, the wife brought this pie and threw it on the table:
- I really want to see how you eat it!
- But I won’t eat it - take the pie to the pigs!
“You know what,” the wife was indignant, “then go and feed your pigs yourself!”
She slammed the door and went to her room. For several more days she laughed at her husband in front of everyone, telling this story.

And then the guest decided to return to the sage:
- Why? Why did everything work out for you and your wife did everything as you said, but mine threw a scandal and is still laughing at me? - he asked from the threshold.
- It's simple. I don't argue with her and don't give orders. I protect her and that makes her calm. My wife is the guarantee of my family well-being.
- So what should I do now, look for another wife?
- This is the simplest method that will lead you to the saddest result. You and your wife need to learn to respect each other. And you, as a man, must be the first to do everything to make her happy.
- Yes, I do everything for her!
- Is she happy? Are you happy? After all, you created a family in order to love each other, take care and rejoice together. But instead you argue, share dominance and discuss each other...

The man wandered home, lost in thought. On the way, he saw a beautiful rose bush. It was with these roses that he once sought her hand. Every day he gave one twig ke roses At any time of the year... When was the last time he gave her such flowers? He couldn't remember anymore.

He picked a twig and took it home. Everyone at home was already asleep. He didn’t want to disturb his wife and simply placed flowers at her head.

In the morning, for the first time in recent years, breakfast awaited him. And a beautiful wife with shining eyes. He hugged her and kissed her tenderly, just like he had done many years ago.

He stopped doing unimportant things, began to devote more time to his wife and tried to make her happier. His attention and care, tenderness and love returned to him multiplied many times over. His wife stopped going around the house “haphazardly”, began cooking his favorite dishes for him again, they stopped arguing and everything got better...

Several years passed, and one day a young man knocked on the door of his house.
- I heard that your relationship with your wife is a model for others. But I can’t do anything. My wife and I quarrel all the time, she spends all the money, we argue constantly... What's the secret? I have already read so many books, but none of them helped me...

The owner smiled and said:
- Come in, dear guest. My wife is just about to bake a cake...

Family happiness. Parable.

In one small town, two families live next door. Some spouses constantly quarrel, blaming each other for all troubles, while others dote on their other half. The obstinate housewife marvels at her neighbor’s happiness. Jealous. Says to her husband:
- Go and see how they manage to keep everything smooth and quiet.
He came to the neighbors, quietly went into the house and hid in a secluded corner. Watching. And the housewife hums a cheerful song and puts things in order in the house. He just wipes away the dust from an expensive vase. Suddenly the phone rang, the woman got distracted, and put the vase on the edge of the table, so that it was about to fall.
But then her husband needed something in the room. He caught a vase, it fell and broke. “What will happen?” the neighbor thinks.
The wife came up, sighed with regret, and said to her husband:
- Sorry honey. I am guilty. She placed it on the table so carelessly.
- What are you doing, honey? It's my fault. I was in a hurry and didn’t notice the vase. Anyway. We could not have had greater misfortune.
...The neighbor’s heart sank painfully. He came home upset. Wife to him:
- What took you so long? Have you looked?
- Yes!
- Well, how are they doing?

It's all their fault. But we are all right.